Florida Divorce: Alimony

Divorce cases generate many questions about alimony. Today we talk about the types of alimony available in Florida. Alimony is based primarily on the receiving spouse’s need and the paying spouse’s ability to pay.

Temporary Alimony is payable while the divorce case pending. This type of alimony cannot be waived, even in a prenuptial agreement because it is based on the legal duty to support your spouse. It ends at final judgment.1

At final judgment, there are three possible types of alimony in the law.

Permanent Alimony is what we traditionally think of when we hear the word “alimony.” It is paid as long the receiving former spouse is alive and remains unmarried. If the receiving spouse moves into a “supportive relationship,” Florida law now permits permanent alimony to be modified or changed. If the paying spouse dies first, his or her estate has to continue to pay.

Rehabilitative Alimony is paid while the receiving spouse gets education or training that will allow him/her to be self-supporting. To be eligible for rehabilitative alimony, there must be a specific plan for the education.

Lump Sum Alimony is awarded, but not often. This is payment of a specific amount, in either one payment or payments over time. Once ordered, the whole amount becomes the property of the receiving spouse. This alimony cannot be modified.

In some areas of the state, judges have created a fourth type of alimony called “bridge the gap,” meant to ease the transition to single life when there is no rehabilitative plan. This is another type that cannot be changed once ordered.

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Florida Divorce: Frequently Asked Questions

Can I stop a no-fault divorce?

If one of the spouses believes that the marriage is “irretrievably broken,” the divorce will very likely be granted. The “no fault” law makes it extremely difficult to stop a divorce.

Can I date while separated?

Until the Final Judgment is signed by the judge, you are still married. Regardless of what this means to you, it is important not to introduce your dating partners to your children until you have established a relationship you believe is serious.

How long does it take to get a divorce?

Once all the required documents have been filed by both of you, your case is ready for final hearing. The scheduling of that hearing depends on your area. Expect the whole process to take a minimum of two months.

Can we use the same lawyer to save money?

The Rules Regulating the Florida Bar prohibit an attorney from representing more than one party in a case. Even if you both agree, the attorney can only represent one of you in a divorce case.

Florida Divorce - Meeting Your Responsibilities

Representing yourself in a divorce means that you need to study the law, rules of procedure and your local court's administrative orders. These resources are all available online in Florida.

The laws you will need to become familiar with include Chapters 44, 48 and 61 of the Florida Statutes. Chapter 44 covers mediation rules. Chapter 48 covers service of process and the court's jurisdiction. Chapter 61 is the actual divorce law and includes custody and child support.

You will also need to know the rules of procedure. The Florida Family Rules and Procedure (Fla. Fam. L.R.P.) outline the divorce procedure requirements. Some of the family rules refer back to the Florida Civil Rules of Procedure, so you will need access to the civil rules as well. Both the statutes and the procedural rules are contained in our link section.

Finally, you should review the local administrative rules. Each court seems to have some local procedural requirements outlined in the administrative rules. For example, in the 6th Circuit there are special local forms you need to file your case. Many times, the model visitation schedule for your area is contained in an administrative order. So be sure to search your court's website so that you can represent yourself in your Florida divorce.

Representing Yourself in Divorce - Your Responsibilities

Representing yourself in your divorce case is called “pro se.” Legal dictionaries define "pro se" as someone who represents them self in a legal procedure without an attorney.

You have the right to represent yourself in court, however, you must understand that choosing to represent yourself means the court will expect you to follow the same rules and procedures that an attorney must follow. You will need to study Florida law and procedures.

The judge in your case must remain impartial and cannot do anything to give any appearance of being partial to either side. This includes giving legal advice and having contact with either party without the other being present. When you go into court, the judge may give you information about what may be wrong with the papers you filed. Listen carefully.

Court staff can only assist you with procedures. Procedural information includes such matters as where to obtain forms for some procedures, how to file a petition, answer requirements, service requirements on common procedures, how to get a default, how to file a motion, how to get a hearing, etc.

Very often there is a fine line between procedural information and legal advice. Staff cannot give legal advice. Basically, questions are taken on an individual basis and a judgment is made about whether or not the question involves giving legal advice. If you are told that your question is legal advice, just accept that it is and don't continue to question court employees to help you when they cannot.

Filling out forms is definitely considered legal advice. You will need to seek an attorney’s assistance or learn some Florida law if you have any questions regarding "what to put in the blanks." The DIY Divorce courses are designed to help you learn Florida divorce law. Use the box on the left to sign up now for a free Tele-Test Drive.

Avoid These 4 Mistakes in Your Florida Divorce

Florida divorce procedures can be like navigating a maze at a time when you're already feeling confused. If you are representing yourself in a Florida divorce, avoid these four common mistakes.

• Asking your friends for legal advice. Unless you are friends with a Florida divorce attorney, avoid asking them for legal advice. You will get different advice and end up taking a poll. It will make you crazy. If you are representing yourself, get expert advice when you need it, but to do this right, you need to learn about Florida divorce law.

• Incomplete Financial Affidavit. This is the most important document of your case if you have any property, debt or children. Take the time to get accurate information. Use at the past 12 months of household bills. Call the companies if you don’t have the information. Get current values for all accounts at the date of filing the petition for dissolution of marriage.

• Not customizing the Florida divorce forms. Your case is unique. The official online forms do not always permit you to add sufficient information to get what you want. If you want to ask that property be sold over your spouse’s objection, you need to include all the requirements for a partition action. The form permits only 5 additional lines of information for “other relief.” This is not enough space to meet the requirements for the relief you want in your Florida divorce.

• Not Seeking Expert Help. There are times when it just makes sense to get some expert help with your case. If you have complicated or unique finances, you may need an accountant. If you have complicated property issues or non-marital assets, you may want to talk to an attorney about legal treatment of the property or to an accountant about valuation issues. There are just times when it makes sense to seek expert advice in your Florida divorce.